If you love forbidden fruit, you've probably wondered how to hook up with a married woman. It's easier than you think to have a no-strings, discreet affair. Most married women, especially cougars and MILFs, are bored in their marriage and desperately hoping to hook up with a younger man who wants to show them a good time in bed. Find out how to hook up with a married woman in a few easy steps.

Before you start hitting on married women left and right, you need to be able to spot a married woman versus a happily married woman. Going for a married woman who is clearly in love with her husband can lead to embarrassment, drama, and possibly even trouble. However, most women aren't happily married - especially after the first few years.

The older the married woman is, the more unhappy she probably is. It's only natural that once we've been with the same partner for a few years, we start to tire of them - more so, if you're married.

While commitment brings security, it also breeds comfort. Often husbands neglect their wives, neglect their physical appearance and health, and become lazy in the bedroom. This is when you can swoop in. If the married woman you're digging has an out of shape, disinterested, or overbearing husband - and you're a young buck smiling in her direction - you can bet she's interested.

If the married woman you have your eye on is out with her shlubby husband, it might be tough to get her number or interest her in a little down-low fun - but it's still possible. All of your cues come from the body language between the couple. If they're both on their phones and not engaged with each other, or better still - she's not on her phone, but he is and isn't paying attention - make your move as soon as he's in the bathroom or out of the picture.

If you're wondering how to tell if a married woman is down for hooking up, watch her body language. One of the tell-tale signs of arousal and interest is said without words. If she's positioning her body toward you, making strong eye contact, smiling, or touching you - that's a sure sign she is down to hook up. If she's flustered or embarrassed from your attention, it might take a bit longer to warm her up - but she's definitely interested. The more nervous the MILF, the more likely it is that she hasn't had sex in a long time.

If she's laughing at all of your jokes or finding a reason to stand near you, she's showing you definite signs of attraction. If you play your cards right, you could be hooking up with this horny MILF within the same evening. If her husband is around, find a cheeky way to grab her phone number or social media profile while he's busy. You're more likely to get her number if you keep it light-hearted versus forceful in your approach.

If she notices your attention and turns her back to you, you might have to move on to the next sexy cougar. If you start chatting her up, but her body language is defensive or she's avoiding your gaze at all costs, she's probably not feeling it. Look for crossed arms, body pointed away from you, and annoyed facial expressions to provide all of the warning signs you need! That married woman is off the menu.

Some of the key ways to impress a married woman and get her into bed (or backseat) are by using sustained eye contact, suggestive language, touch, and letting her know she could have a wild time without anyone knowing. When you make eye contact, you're going to want to make it playful and make it clear that you like what you see. If she's not used to having younger guys look at her that way, she'll likely be taken aback and doubtful. You'll have to show her by connecting with her multiple times this way.

If the husband is out with the MILF you have your eye on, you might be wondering how to get a married woman interested in hooking up. If the clock is ticking, you might not have long to act, but you can slip her your number or slip her a suggestion to meet you for a quickie in the restroom. There's nothing hotter than a no-strings hookup that no one else knows about or will know about. It seems unlikely, but if you turn her on you could get her to join you in your car, the bathroom, a hotel nearby, or your place if it's not too late.

If there's no husband in the picture, but she's definitely got a wedding ring on - even better. You can more persistently pursue her. Whether your goal is to try and get some action that night or set it up in the near future you'll need to wow her in your approach. You want this horny housewife to be thinking about you obsessively until you hook up.

In order to get her to act on your mutual desire, you're going to have to make her want you. Here are three ways our experts guarantee will get her panting and lusty for some young stud action:

1. Engage her in conversation about herself. There's no bigger turn-off than a windbag guy going on and on about himself. The way to turn on a woman, especially an older woman, is to ask her about herself. Ask her about her desires, dreams, what she does, and what she loves. By paying attention to what she's saying while maintaining eye contact you're creating a bond. If her husband doesn't listen to her, this is going to be especially effective.

2. Get close without touching her. Without being inappropriate or overly handsy, get close to her and maintain eye contact. If you can feel her trying to back away, then keep your distance until she warms to you. If she's showing signs of attraction, move in a little closer. Top dating studies show that standing within two to three feet of someone you're attracted to, increases attraction by up to seventy percent. Without actually telling her you want to have sex, she's started thinking about it - and she thinks it was her idea! That's what we call body heat!

3. Compliment her. Don't immediately launch into compliments. Wait until you've already engaged in conversation and built a rapport. Women are more likely to put their guard up if a guy approaches them cold with a come-on line. Make sure to use genuine compliments that make her feel beautiful, special, and like you're really taken with her - and not just looking for any woman to hook up with. However, keep the compliments to a minimum. Make the first compliment count, and don't beat a dead horse with it.

4. If you touch her, make it seem arbitrary. Don't go Mr. Grabbyhands, but make it seem like you're touching her in passing. If you're passing her to get you both more drinks, this is the perfect opportunity to graze her waist as you move past her. This is often seen as a gentlemanly move, and it's one that turns women on when done by the right guy. When you return with your drinks she's going to be thinking about getting sweaty with you, a potential boy toy.

Ok, so you've got this cougar revved up and ready to go. Now what?

In the slightly adjusted words of the great Enrique Iglesias, "You can be her hero, baby." Once you've established that this married woman is lonely, bored, or unsatisfied in her marriage you can swoop in and impress her with how much better you are than her current beau. You've already turned her on, and now it's time to close the deal.

First, you have to be able to make a judgment call on the situation. Is this a hookup that's possible tonight or is this one that could happen in the near future? No matter what you do, do it like a true gentleman. If you get angry, rude, or begin ignoring her when you realize you can't get any action - she'll never forget it and you blow any future chance of hooking up with her or potentially her friends. Don't start anything with the husband either. If he doesn't like how much attention you're paying to his wife, apologize gracefully and respect his wishes. This will make the MILF you want like you more and get annoyed with her husband - making her more likely to cheat with you in the future!

If the husband is hovering around your interactions, you might not be able to make any headway. The most innocent way to get her info is to ask her to add herself to your social media account. Hand her your phone and ask her to type in her name. Even if she's in her forties, she's going to have one of the popular apps. This is less forward than asking for her number. If you don't feel comfortable passing her your phone - or taking hers - ask for her last name and make sure you can find her online before she leaves. If this is the case, don't wait before you reach out. The longer you wait between seeing her next, her attraction will fade and she'll have time to rethink cheating on her husband.

If the husband is clueless or doesn't care, he might actually leave his wife at the bar or party you're at. This is the ideal scenario, and if she stays, it's a clear indicator that you could hook up with her that same night. If the husband is still there, but you're feeling extreme vibes she wants to hit it in the utility closet - go for it. Make sure that she's sending you very clear signals. Don't read into anything subtle, like she's just laughing at your jokes or talking to you. Is she touching you? Is she trying to make herself appear more attractive? Is she trying to pull you away from the crowd? These are all green lights.

If the husband isn't there, then as above, look for signals. Ask her if she'd like to join you for a drink somewhere else, to go somewhere more private, or if you can drive her home. All of these options can lead to a hookup. If you're hoping to close the deal in the comfort of the bar or party, it's key to start making your move before you leave. This is when you can increase how much you're touching her, and potentially move in for a kiss. If she has friends lingering, make sure to move your conversation to a more private area first.

You got a taste of the fine wine, and you want more? Once you've already done it, here's how to keep hooking up with a married woman: Use discretion, respect her boundaries, and make each hookup exciting and passionate. Take her to out of the way places that are not only hipper than the places her husband would take her, but far enough away that you won't get busted.

Read articles written by top dating experts like The Guide On How To Hook Up With Sexy, Single Cougars and reader-favorite "What Turns Off A MILF?" Plus 5 Ways To Turn Her On.