The Best St. Louis Cougar Bars

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St. Louis Cougar Bars

Looking for the best St. Louis cougar bars? Where the hot spots to pick up older women are? LonelyWifeHookups.com has you covered with this free directory. Just like any city though, you don't want to walk in acting like you're the king of it, without knowing a bit more about the city you're visiting. Let's first look at the history of the St. Louis Cougar Bar.

A little history of the St. Louis Cougar Bar scene

Perhaps you've heard of the classic MGM musical, Meet Me in St. Louis starring Judy Garland and Margaret O'Brien. Directed by megastar filmmaker, Vincente Minnelli (who was married to Garland, who he fathered Liza Minnelli with), the film was an incredible success upon its release, and though enough time has past that perhaps its reputation has faded slightly, there was a long period after its release where St. Louis became a city synonymous with romance for movie fans across the country. If you make a Meet Me in St. Louis reference with a cougar you're trying to pick up, you're very likely to get a positive response. Remember their St. Louis pop culture references aren't the same as yours because of the generation gap. You might know St. Louis from Nelly videos, but they have the Judy Garland hit. Many fans of that film now make up the cougars and MILFs that make up St. Louis's cougar scene.

St. Louis may not have a reputation as a superior cougar city, but many have also acknowledged that it has on average, as hot a cougar bar scene as any anywhere else in the U.S.A. There are small hot spot articles that graze the surface of the St. Louis Cougar Bar scene but we're going to dive much deeper.

Best Time To Go Out And Days To Go Out in St. Louis

St. Louis isn't much different from any other city in terms of when's the best time and day of the week to go out to pick up cougars. Thursday, Friday, and Saturday night are always going to be the best times in general to get out there. There are still a load of other options though, so don't sweat it if you find yourself with work or family obligations on those nights. Sunday through Wednesday offer up plenty of hot St. Louis cougar club options.

St. Louis's Cougar Bar & Club Directory

Do you have your notepad out? Or maybe have a fresh Google Maps started for your trip to St. Louis? Get ready, because our team has selected their favorite hot spots to save you research time. You can just get out there deep in the St. Louis cougar bar scene, and start getting it on.

360 St. Louis

Type

Upscale Sports and Cocktail Bar

Space

A more spacious than is typical sports bar, with less loud music, and a stunning view overlooking the city

Crowd

Mixed crowd, though slightly more well-off than you'll usually find at sports bars

Address

1 S Broadway, St. Louis, MO 63102, USA

Website

360 St. Louis

Any Notes

All major credit cards accepted, paid street parking nearby

Brief Description

If you're looking for a cougar hookup spot that's right downtown, and has a laid back lounge atmosphere, 360 St. Louis is a great option. You'll have lots of room to walk around, a great menu to sample, and a large selection of adult beverages to drink while you're waiting for your ideal cougar or MILF to wander through the door.

Basso

Type

Italian Restaurant and Sports Bar

Space

Not quite as chic as you expect from an Italian restaurant, because of its inclusion of many flatscreen TVs around the bar, but still quite nice

Crowd

Mixed (from families, to sports fans, to cougars)

Address

7036 Clayton Ave, Saint Louis, MO 63117 USA

Website

Basso

Any Notes

All major credit cards accepted, paid street parking nearby

Brief Description

It might seem a little strange going to a family Italian restaurant to pick up women, but because of their delicious pasta dishes and impressive wine menu, Basso is a spot where older single women will often go for a solo dinner. It's also very conveniently located, so its wine menu makes it a popular stop for a relaxing glass of wine or two as well.

Brio Tuscan Grille

Type

Fine Dining Restaurant and Cocktail Bar

Space

Large Italian decorated fine dining restaurant and cocktail bar with lots of natural light and indoor plant life

Crowd

Mixed crowd, with a significant number of middle class 30-somethings and their families, as well as well-off single older women

Address

1601 S Lindbergh Blvd, Saint Louis, MO 63131 USA

Website

Brio Tuscan Grille

Any Notes

All major credit cards accepted, free lot parking available for customers

Brief Description

Similar to Brasso above, the tasty Italian menu and wine list are key to the number of cougars who can be found at Brio Tuscan Grille. That's not all though. The decor of the restaurant also has a lot to do with it. If you have enough bread and oil, with a nice glass of wine, the beautiful interior of the restaurant does a fine job of reminding anyone who has perhaps spent time in Italy, of their time there. You can often find groups of well-off cougars, who have definitely spent some time there, laughing loudly in a corner booth, flirting in broken Italian with their young waiters and busboys.

Failoni's Restaurant & Bar

Type

Italian Restaurant, Bar, and Event Space

Space

Authentic Italian-style restaurant with a dimly lit vibe, with a very popular patio

Crowd

Mixed crowd with most customers living in the neighborhood

Address

6715 Manchester Ave, St. Louis, MO 63139 USA

Website

Failoni's Restaurant & Bar

Any Notes

All major credit cards accepted, paid street parking nearby, closed on Sunday and Monday, serves lunch

Brief Description

The vibe of Failoni's is one of a family Italian restaurant where a the parents enjoy wine a bit more than they should in front of their children. The bar is also often full of regulars who don't even need to tell the bartender what they want. Some people prefer the brighter atmosphere of the patio. You're going to find the hottest cougars at the bar usually, but when the weather is particularly nice, check the patio.

Sky Music Lounge

Type

Resto-lounge, Party Room, and Live Music Venue

Space

A bit of an eyesore when the lights are on, so don't be scared off by the photos on their website. Once the lights are down and live bands are playing, it's a lively bar vibe.

Crowd

Slightly older crowd of men and women who like to dance to cheap live music

Address

930 Kehrs Mill Rd. Ballwin, MO 63011 USA

Website

Sky Music Lounge

Any Notes

All major credit cards accepted, paid street parking nearby, 21 plus establishment, usually only open Friday and Saturday nights

Brief Description

Sky Music Lounge isn't the classiest bar in St. Louis, but if you're looking for wild cougars to hookup with, you can't let that stop you. The venue is hopping with wild women of an advanced age almost every weekend.

The Jive and Wail - Duelling Piano Bar

Type

Cocktail Bar, and Live Music Venue

Space

Large live music venue with a well-stocked bar, dance floor, and stage for performances featuring two piano players

Crowd

Mixed but slightly older crowd, with a larger number of women

Address

621 Westport Plaza Drive, 2nd Floor, St. Louis, MO 63146, USA

Website

The Jive and Wail - Duelling Piano Bar

Any Notes

All major credit cards accepted, paid street parking nearby, 21 plus establishment, open Friday and Saturday nights, also available to rent for private events

Brief Description

If you want a slightly more upscale version of the wild and out of control dance vibe of Sky Music Lounge, with music that's a bit more enjoyable, you should stop by The Jive and Wail. Duelling pianos became huge after Elton John and Billy Joel toured together with a stage setup with two pianos facing each other. It was a visual and musical gimmick that many bars realized they could easily replicate in their venues. Though many states in the South still prefer banjos as their duelling instruments of choice, the piano is the most popular when it comes to gimmick live music venues.

Just John Club

Type

LGBT Cocktail Bar and Dance Club

Space

Big dance floor with full lighting system, and huge bar

Crowd

Mixed LGBT crowd

Address

4112 Manchester Ave, St. Louis, MO 63110, USA

Website

Just John Club

Any Notes

All major credit cards accepted, paid street parking nearby, 21 plus establishment

Brief Description

One of the biggest and consistently busiest LGBT St. Louis Cougar Bars, you'll have a stellar time here even if you don't end up hooking up. The club has a huge dance floor with a booming stereo system, extensive lighting system, and lots of solid DJs who know what songs to play to make you shake your money maker all night. Come on Wednesdays for Just John's extremely popular lesbian night, Just Jane.

JJ's Clubhouse

Type

Leather Bar & Dance Club

Space

A dimly lit bar and dance club with lots of leather furnishings to go along with the outfits of its clientele

Crowd

Mostly gay men (young and old)

Address

3858 Market St, St. Louis, MO 63110, USA

Website

JJ's Clubhouse

Any Notes

All major credit cards accepted, paid street parking nearby, 21 plus establishment

Brief Description

JJ's Clubhouse is perhaps St. Louis' best spot for young cubs and older bears to meet up at. Open 3PM to 3AM 7 days a week, JJ's is very well known in the St. Louis LGBT community as one of the most jumping spots for bears to let loose after a hard day at work.

Keypers Piano Bar

Type

Piano and Cocktail Bar

Space

Dive bar vibe with piano

Crowd

Mixed LGBT clientele

Address

2280 Jefferson Avenue, St. Louis, MO 63104, USA

Website

Keypers Piano Bar

Any Notes

All major credit cards accepted, paid street parking nearby, 21 plus establishment

Brief Description

Keypers may not be much to look at, but the bar's regulars and staff create a great atmosphere for anyone who's looking for a low-stress evening out, where you have a bit too much to drink, eat mediocre bar food, sing along with a piano player (both men and women) who play the hits with that express intention. There are lots of cougars who come out to Keypers looking for a fun time singing along, and perhaps to hookup with some bisexual couples at the end of the night.

Rooftop Terrace Bar at the Moonrise Hotel

Type

Rooftop Terrace Cocktail Bar

Space

A stunning rooftop bar with a view that will give you a perspective of St. Louis you haven't seen before

Crowd

Upperclass mixed crowd (most who are staying at the hotel)

Address

6177 Delmar in The Loop, St. Louis, MO 63112 USA

Website

Rooftop Terrace Bar at the Moonrise Hotel

Any Notes

All major credit cards accepted, paid street parking nearby (free parking for hotel guests), 21 plus establishment

Brief Description

The Moonrise Hotel has a great restaurant as well, but it's their rooftop bar that we love; and that most of the cougars who're staying at the hotel love as well. The open air atmosphere, high above the city, offers a great respite from the busy streets of St. Louis. Stress seems to disappear when you're on the rooftop terrace, which allows for much more natural and comfortable pickup attempts if you're out looking to pick up a cougar. An like with all hotel bars, you have the advantage of your cougar most likely staying at the hotel you're at, so there's no need to take a long taxi cab back to your place to hookup.

Where to After St. Louis?

Once you're finished working your way through all of the St. Louis cougar bars, you're likely to have an appetite for another trip elsewhere in the U.S.A., to sample another Cougar bar scene. A great city's whose selection of MILFs and cougars is similar, is Atlanta. No matter what your extracurricular interests are, there's something for everyone there. News junkies can take the CNN studio tour, lovers of soda can visit the World of Coca Cola, lovers of history can visit the Martin Luther King Jr. National Historic Site, and of course the club and bar scene is out of control when it comes out cougars and MILFs.

The stunning amount of business that happens there makes it a likely spot for your work to have to send you sometime for business as well, so you can probably save a little money. Bonus!